Why getting consent and feeling respected at your photo session matters to me
- Kayla White
- 1 day ago
- 2 min read
When you step in front of my camera, my top priority isn’t just getting beautiful images- it’s making sure you feel seen, respected, and safe to be fully yourself.
One of the ways I hold space for that is by honoring your pronouns, your identity, and your relationships exactly as they are. Before a session, I’ll ask for the names and pronouns you'd like me to use- not just because it's respectful, but because it's the foundation for genuine connection. If you're part of a family that doesn't follow traditional roles, I want to celebrate that! Whether you're a Mimi and PopPop, a blended family with your own dynamic, or someone who doesn't go by gendered titles- I’m here to capture your story on your terms.

During sessions, I’m also intentional about the way I direct and pose you. I never want to assume how you identify or what you’re comfortable with. You won’t find me defaulting to “masculine” or “feminine” posing. Instead, I’ll ask what feels right for you and collaborate with you to find what feels authentic- whether that’s playful, soft, bold, or something entirely different.
Consent matters, too. I never touch anyone without asking first- including kids. From adjusting a collar to tucking a hair strand, I check in first. That small pause sends a big message: your body is your own.

I talk more about this in a recent video where I go deeper into how I create inclusive and affirming spaces during photo sessions. You can watch it now on YouTube here.
Because everyone deserves to feel welcome in their photos. And you deserve to be seen- fully and beautifully, just as you are.

Kayla Rochelle photographs primarily in Charleston, SC soaking up the beach at sunset and daytime in the parks as much as possible.
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