Creating a Photo Session Where You Feel Seen, Heard, and Comfortable

You know what really matters to me? That you feel comfortable, included, welcome, and respected. This isn’t just a nice idea—it’s something I actively think about at every single photo session. Over time, I’ve had to train myself to slow down during shoots so I can create space for all of those feelings to be present.

If you’ve ever worked with me, you know my brain moves a million miles a minute. Photography, for me, is about visualizing the image in my mind and quickly building the steps to create it: location, pose, angle, lighting. I’m already thinking about the next shot while I’m taking the current one—and also chatting with you about the latest episode of that show everyone’s watching. My energy is high, but I’ve realized that slowing down is essential to making sure you feel safe, seen, and honored.

One of the most important things I practice at every session is consent. I never touch anyone—toddlers included—without asking. Whether it’s adjusting your hair, fixing your shirt, or repositioning your shoulders, I’ll always ask, “Is it okay if I touch you?” At the start of a session, I often ask, “Are you comfortable with me moving you if needed?” If the answer is no, I respect that fully and will guide you verbally instead.

Consent matters.

Every time.

I also work intentionally to use inclusive, respectful language with all families. Not every family looks the same. Not everyone uses the same names or fits into traditional roles. If I don’t know what you’re called, I’ll ask. If you're Mimi and Pop Pop instead of Grandma and Grandpa, I want to know that. If you’re in a blended family and you’re George but not “Dad,” I want to call you by the name that reflects your relationship, not what I assume. This isn’t just politeness—it’s about ensuring that you feel seen for exactly who you are.I’ll always try my best to remember unique names and titles, but if I need help, I’ll ask. If I can’t quite keep “Bebop and Bebopa” straight (true story), I’ll ask if I can use your first names instead. And if you’d prefer Ms. Smith over Mary? You’ve got it. My job is to honor who you are and how your family works.Even when it feels like a styled version of life—coordinated outfits in a park on a random Tuesday—I want your session to feel as real and relaxed as possible. That means respecting your boundaries, celebrating your family dynamic, and doing the little things that make a big impact, like asking your toddler for permission before wiping a nose or picking them up.

In newborn sessions, it’s the same. You can assume I’ll eventually need to gently move the baby, but I will always ask: “Is it okay if I move them?” Because your space deserves respect. Because you deserve respect.This is your family. These are your people. I want your 45 minutes with me to feel joyful, safe, and comfortable. I want your photos to reflect who you really are. And if you have ideas or preferences that can help me make your session feel even more inclusive, I’m all ears. My door is always open to those conversations.Because the most important thing—truly—is that you leave your session feeling like your family was seen, heard, and celebrated. And that’s the kind of magic I want to create every time.

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